Friday, May 16, 2014

Unit 8 Practices

Of all the exercises we’ve practiced so far in the course, the two exercises I find most beneficial are the subtle-mind and the visualization exercise. I like loving-kindness exercises too, but just not the one we first practiced with envisioning someone suffering (weird!). I find the subtle mind exercise beneficial because it has helped me personally with dealing with attention issues and anxiety. I am able to concentrate better, be less stressed or anxious, and I also sleep better when I do it at night. On the contrary though, I actually have learn to use the subtle mind practice to clear my mind and energize me. The visualization exercise is beneficial because I can use the feelings from happiness, wholeness, and health to create a sense of wellbeing today. I don’t just use past memories like the book example said to “think of a time when”, I like to make up new thoughts.


I can continue to implement these exercises in my life by when I am feeling stress, anxiety, or a cluttered mind I can stop and take the time to meditate with these exercises to continue "mental fitness". A specific example would be how I tend to overanalyze my relationships with guys in my head sometimes. I think about “Do I really want this”, “Is this right”, “I don’t think I want to get married now, or maybe ever” along with other thoughts, but instead of worrying about where my relationship is going I meditate with subtle mind to allow my mind just to be still and not worry. After I do so, I feel better and realize I need to live moment to moment and follow my heart. The visualization exercise is good for when I want to envision a positive outcome for myself or for someone else. For example, if I am feeling ill, I can use visualization to think of when I am feeling happiness, wholeness, and health so that I may focus on those feelings rather than being tired, sore, sick, feverish, etc.

7 comments:

  1. Heather,
    Great blog post this week! Just like you I am an over-thinker and I have a tendency to analyze everything in my life. I think that comes from my desire to control outcomes which is impossible to do because the future doesn't actually exist and can't be controlled. By realizing this I have become much more aware of the present moment and I have reduced the amount of time I spend analyzing things in my life. I can relate to your visualization practice where you envision positive outcomes because I have been working on doing the same thing and it has had wonderful results. So many positive things have happened in my life recently since I started doing that. Coincidence? I don't think so but many skeptics would try to tell me that thinking about a positive outcome will not have any influence in real life. What do you think?

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    1. Hi James! I believe in the power of positive thinking, so I don't think it's just coincidence! If we manifest things we want in our life, I believe the things will happen. Some people may look for things to relate to, but I actually have had real results from positive thinking and manifesting. So I believe ya! I am glad to hear this for you, keep it up! :-)

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  2. Heather, I'm glad that these exercises are helping you. Every since I have been taking this class it has really helped me. I have started to meditate and it has made a big difference in my life. I was always thinking negative, but it has changed tremendously. Don't get me wrong I may still have some negative thoughts from time to time but when I do I try to think more positive and do my deep breathing because I am becoming more positive. Great Job

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  3. Heather,

    I thought your post this week was great, this was something I would have written 15+ years ago, because at that time, I always over-processed my thoughts and actions. I did that so much, I want to say it ruined many opportunities for me. I have lived with OCD for a better part of my life, to where things had to be just so. For example, my kitchen shelves were alphabetized, the shower curtain was drawn just right and so forth. One day I realized that their were many more important situations in the world than having one thing out of place. It took many years and therapy for me is to have my bed not made then if I get the urge to be compulsive again, all I have to do is meditate for peace and calmness. I know it probably sounds silly to not make a bed or leave a shower curtain open, but I think how lucky I am I can do this.
    Even though all the exercises really didn't work for me, I have found my own niche to help bring me back to reality for living in the moment.

    Donna

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    1. Hi Donna,

      I can relate. I've had OCD since I can remember as far back as at least second or third grade. My mom put me in therapy. I am much better now. I am not messy at all (I mention this because I had the fear I would be messy if I didn't cling to the OCD), I am still clean and organized, but I no longer feel that things have to have a place and I don't need to have control. My poor sweet little niece has it now. She's had it since about 7 years old. She is 11 now and my sister has her seeing a counselor too. I hope she can improve too. Glad to hear your story that you have improved :-)

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  4. Heather, I loved reading how you are incorporating these exercises in your daily life and how they are having a direct impact on you. I over think relationships as well, and being able to calm my mind and get rid of all of the unnecessary chatter that is going on inside my head helps me to focus on what is really important as well. Doing a meditation before bedtime is a great way to get a good night's sleep, which is truly beneficial to overall health. Thanks so much for sharing your experiences!

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  5. Heather, I am glad to hear I am not the only one who is analyzing thier life...lol I have also learned to step back and enjoy the day to day adventures of life and not to worry so much about what the future holds. I can agree with you on the meditation topics. I prefer the visulalization topic and the "wierdness" of the loving kindness meditation exercise. I agree that was the one I think I had the least sucess with and definately did not have much interest in. Thanks for your thoughts this week I really enjoyed this post:-)

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