Saturday, May 31, 2014

Unit 10 Final Blog Post

After reviewing my unit 3 personal assessment for psychological, physical, and spiritual well-being I saw that I rated myself as an
  •          8 in Physical
  •     5 in Spiritual
  •         6 in Psychological

In unit 9 I rated my physical level at a
  •        10 in Physical
  •        8 in Spiritual
  •        7 in Psychological

It’s changed by a little bit in a positive way and I think it’s from all that I’ve learned and all the new meditation practices I’ve incorporated.

The goals and activities I’ve set for myself are currently being achieved. I am really active and doing my weekly dance class and yoga/tai chi. I am psychologically not stressing myself or worrying. Spiritually I am practicing my meditation daily and practicing patience and loving-kindness more. When I start to feel irritated I ask myself “Is this how loving-kindness is?” and I think “Nope! Choose happiness, choose acceptance”.


My experience in this course has improved my well being through meditation and relaxation exercises. It has been rewarding because I do feel less stress. The only difficult part is when I am not meditating I need to still keep a calm meditative mind (which I am working on). This whole experience will improve my ability to assist others because I have been through it myself, because I have learned techniques to suggest to help others, and I can show people the benefits of integral health/flourishing and encourage them to self-love and self-heal.

Monday, May 26, 2014

Unit 9 Final Project

To the reader… I asked professor about using "I" "me" "my" and writing in first person in this project since I've been told by her before not to and was knocked points on a paper once, so I wrote this formally. Just giving anyone who reads this a heads up since it may look weird to see "the author" "she" or "one can".
Introduction
     With all of the stress that can occur in people’s lives today, health and wellness professionals can help guide individuals to practice better habits to reduce stress and maintain a healthy mentality.
     It is important for health and wellness professionals to develop psychologically, spiritually and physically because the professional should practice what they preach. It can be easy to tell an individual to be positive, meditate, eat right, and exercise but if the professional is not friendly and is overweight the advice would seem contradicting. Health and wellness professionals can learn about practices for better well being, but actually actively engaging in psychological, spiritual, and physical practices is what keeps the professional in a better state of wellness overall. If a doctor practices medicine daily, a teacher teaches daily, and a baker bakes daily they are all keeping up with their profession and so should a health and wellness professional. Also, professionals must continue education by reading, continuing eduation, or incorporating new practices or methods into their career. Areas that a health and wellness professional could develop in to achieve new goals is to be part of a community for meditation or psychospiritual flourishing so that they may speak with other professionals to share and learn about new experiences. Finding out current research is also a goal for one to have because with each new research method done on the benefits of meditation on specific groups, it adds credibility to the practice and can also give the professional a new idea or insight to use or share. 
Assessment
     The author has assessed her health in each domain of spiritual, physical, and psychological wellness and notices there is always room for improvement. Although she feels she is flourishing, she feels that continuing practices is most beneficial to her. If she had to score herself in each area using a scale of one through ten (ten being highest), it would be an eight in spirituality, a ten in physical, and a seven in psychological. She is comfortable in her spiritual wellness and is at an eight because she is still moving up in that area, but continues meditative practice daily. In the physical area, she does a yoga/tai chi class every week as well as works out daily. In the psychological area, she feels she is at a seven because even though she is positive and practices patience and loving-kindness, she still has a tendency to worry or overthink things too much.
Goal development
     One goal for the physical area is to do yoga, tai chi, or modern dance class at least twice a week instead of just once per week. One goal for the psychological area is to do practices to stop worrying or overthinking. The practice will be that as soon as worry or overthinking starts, instead, think of what to be grateful for at this present moment. This practice will avert wandering thoughts to be back to the present moment. For spiritual improvement, meditation will continue as well as reading at least one book a month to do with mindfulness. The current book on the list to read is “How to Practice the Way to a Meaningful Life” by his holiness the Dalai Lama translated and edited by Jeffrey Hopkins.
Practices for personal health
     Strategies one could implement to foster growth in the physical area are yoga, tai chi, or a dance class. Yoga and tai chi use the mind, body, and breathing techniques. A modern dance class is expressive and uses the body, mind, and movement. All three provide a sense of enlightenment while improving one’s physique.
     Strategies one could implement to foster growth in the psychological area are to write in a journal daily and to only surround one’s self around positivity. Journal writing can help get out any thoughts of feelings that tend to resonate too long. Filtering out negative people, negative thoughts, and negative practices in life will help improve mental wellness.
     Strategies one could implement to foster growth in the spiritual area are to meditate and to read books on spirituality. Mediation helps the mind settle, but can also bring one to the present moment. Sometimes mediation can even spark an epiphany. Reading books on spirituality can help one to achieve a higher point of flourishing.
Commitment

     One can assess their progress, or lack of, in the next six months by keeping track in a journal. One could write out what levels they were at for the start, then keep track of strategies or practices during the journey as well as thoughts and feelings about how they are changing. In six months of keeping a journal, one can compare their start to that six-month goal point. Strategies that can be used to assist in maintaining long-term practices can include the journal, but also include having a partner to work with and keep each other accountable, or one could join a community group online to maintain long-term practices.

Friday, May 16, 2014

Unit 8 Practices

Of all the exercises we’ve practiced so far in the course, the two exercises I find most beneficial are the subtle-mind and the visualization exercise. I like loving-kindness exercises too, but just not the one we first practiced with envisioning someone suffering (weird!). I find the subtle mind exercise beneficial because it has helped me personally with dealing with attention issues and anxiety. I am able to concentrate better, be less stressed or anxious, and I also sleep better when I do it at night. On the contrary though, I actually have learn to use the subtle mind practice to clear my mind and energize me. The visualization exercise is beneficial because I can use the feelings from happiness, wholeness, and health to create a sense of wellbeing today. I don’t just use past memories like the book example said to “think of a time when”, I like to make up new thoughts.


I can continue to implement these exercises in my life by when I am feeling stress, anxiety, or a cluttered mind I can stop and take the time to meditate with these exercises to continue "mental fitness". A specific example would be how I tend to overanalyze my relationships with guys in my head sometimes. I think about “Do I really want this”, “Is this right”, “I don’t think I want to get married now, or maybe ever” along with other thoughts, but instead of worrying about where my relationship is going I meditate with subtle mind to allow my mind just to be still and not worry. After I do so, I feel better and realize I need to live moment to moment and follow my heart. The visualization exercise is good for when I want to envision a positive outcome for myself or for someone else. For example, if I am feeling ill, I can use visualization to think of when I am feeling happiness, wholeness, and health so that I may focus on those feelings rather than being tired, sore, sick, feverish, etc.

Saturday, May 10, 2014

Unit 7 Meeting Aesclepius and Leading

At first I had a hard time concentrating because I was tired, so I turned off the guided meditation and slept for 20 minutes. When I felt rested I started the practice again, this time it was easier to focus and envision Aesclepius. I pictured a really kind looking wise older man with medium length white hair and a smile that seemed to be permanent, even his resting face had a slight smile to it. His eyes are kind and blue, like crystal clear blue. He had a cane, even if he was a healer, he was old but had the cane. I tried not to focus on the cane or think of it as something he needed for pain, the Aesclepius I envisioned is in no pain. It really seemed it was supposed to be symbolic of a life well lived with no regrets and now ultimate wisdom. Anyway, I envisioned the white beam from his head to mine, as well as picturing a yellow beam from his throat to mine, and a translucent pink from his heart to mine. I only remember the practice saying a white beam, but naturally my mind made the other two colors and I wasn’t going to force it.
After the beams, when the woman started to speak again I actually got startled because I was finishing the heart beam and wasn’t expecting the loud voice at that moment. Then I felt rushed in the end when she said to picture Aesclepius and imagine him turning to a white ball and us taking in that white ball force. She started asking too many questions too quick. I wanted her to give me another minute to give the respect to slowly have Aesclepius dissipate. I paused the track, and slowly, very slowly and carefully let him fade starting with his feet on up. He faded like a bunch of little megapixels floating up and eventually into a white ball of energy. When I was ready I breathed him in and really felt a sense of “That’s what I’ve been missing”. I suddenly felt a renewed sense of energy about why I wanted to get into the profession of a health and wellness coach to begin with… to be a healer. The lady’s voice asked where it had been and to welcome it home. I did just that, like a lost child I welcomed it in and consoled it. I thought about how not to only heal myself, but to use the gift to heal others. Overall a great experience, however I will not be using the guided lady voice again! I will continue to practice this and the other meditations by alternating them at first, and then using them when I feel it necessary, or rather at appropriate times. With all the meditations available, it’s best to find the ones that fit well with me and continue them to make calmness, happiness, healing, and wholeness a permanent part of my life.
As for the saying “One cannot lead another where one has not gone himself” it means one cannot lead another on a spiritual path in life, if one hasn’t done it themselves. If the practitioner has not flourished, how will they help others flourish? There’s another saying “The blind leading the blind” and it would be just like that. I feel that I do have an obligation to my clients by developing my health psychologically, physically, and spiritually because I believe one should “lead by example”. If I have not flourished, then it would be harder for me to guide someone else onto flourishing. I can you implement psychological and spiritual growth in your personal life by meditating and being around like-minded people. I can also continue to read up on psychological and spiritual growth and apply new techniques.

Monday, May 5, 2014

Unit 6 Integral Assessment

In a nutshell, the exercise and process of the integral assessment is about where one can look for areas of improvement in their life and in the four aspects of human experience (psychospiritual, biological, interpersonal, and worldly).

What I discovered about myself is that I tend to be too hard on myself, so I need to improve in that area. I also need to improve my attention level still.

I feel like I am stuck at the interpersonal and wordly level. I think I am in balance in my biological level, but I can improve upon my psychospiritual level.

I choose to focus on growth and development all the levels! First I will start with psychospiritual, then worldly and interpersonal. I chose these areas for personal reasons. I didn’t mind writing about improving upon being hard on myself, but a few other reasons are something I’d like to keep to myself. One more that I will share though, is that I have been finding myself way too annoyed with people lately. I am doing practices to find positive aspects of people and loving them no matter what, but it’s not sinking in or truly working. It’s been almost like I’m thinking those things to help, but instead I still feel a certain disconnect to some people.

After that I can improve upon biological. I think all people are in need of improvement at different times in their life. I may “flourish” but I may fall off track and working on improvements is essential to integral health.


Specific exercises I can use to improve upon the areas of difficulty in my life are more loving-kindness meditation practices.